I study writing here and this is something that makes every word count. That is why it is reprinted here without permission. I need to reread it before commenting further.
When President Donald Trump canceled a visit to the Aisne-Marne American Cemetery near Paris in 2018, he blamed rain for the last-minute decision, saying that “the helicopter couldn’t fly” and that the Secret Service wouldn’t drive him there. Neither claim was true.
The link above is for future reading and for now this is about The Great Hack (2019) and ultimately Steve Bannon, who has been in the news.
In the video Nix discusses OCEAN. At about the 9:00 minute mark he mentions cookies, social messaging ads, and set-top boxes as media buys.
Finally and most importantly:
Someone I knew once used a phrase that I cannot remember. It was specific to the internet but it is also the way some people may think and it is very much a sign of the times. It was something like “self convincing.”
You can find anything. Maybe you can even find anyone, but that is a story for another time. Almost always, you can find a viewpoint or even something fairly scientific to back-up your opinion.
I even remember it from law training too: you can always find a law to support a certain position. That does not guarantee you will win or even that your case has merit though.
I really wanted to read Small Sacrifices but could not find it for free or in an e-edition. My large local library does not have it; a print edition could be sent, but it is not worth it, I think, after taking a closer look at Ms. Rule’s career. I admire her for going back to school, working in law enforcement and related fields, and studying courtrooms to be the best she could be. Her books, however, are just one woman’s opinions. The whole thing, like any science or profession, can be subjective. The legal process itself is contentious, adversarial, and human.
I suffered through it and you can too. Following are some links for afterward.
“Trust, shame, and complicity” are three good descriptions.
Asked how Berchtold came up with this extravagant deception plan, Borgman said her only theory is that inspiration struck from the 70s zeitgeist. “This whole idea of science fiction was popular, and tape recorders had just come out. There were also a lot of newspaper articles about U.F.O.s and whether or not they were real.”
“To be able to actually kidnap somebody is incredibly difficult. Then to be able to maintain this ruse for years and years really takes somebody who has very little empathy for anybody else. It really does take a sociopath.”
Manipulation and grooming are not understood by so many. It happened to my whole family, this man was a master and my parents saved my life. They’re the bravest people I know, willing to try to help the rest of you see what they didn’t. That is the only reason we told our story.
I’ll browse on my phone and see if I can come up with more facts that are relevant.
Until then, I’ll write two things: The Vanity Fair piece is the better one. Is Skye Borgman a journalist or a film maker or both?
I am finally starting to put it together: KTVB, KSL, Fox10 Phoenix, and East Idaho News. EIN is connected to the Idaho Statesman through Nate Sunderland, the managing editor.
There are some internet celebrities (Nate Eaton), real reporters (Justin Lum), YouTube phonies (take your pick), and just plain weirdos (Eric Grossarth).
For now the things that are holding them together are the Mormon church and murder.
This is the story of Chad and Lori.
Well she ain’t lookin’ back anymore
She said, “Catch me if you can anymore”
Ya know she didn’t want to do it
But he just pushed her too far
Everybody got a breakin’ point
And Baby there you are
She’s a Runaway
Run, Run, Run, Runaway
Does anyone have pictures of Emma making faces? It sure has layers. According to this link, “I’ve seen this before where it’s a bizarre case, it makes no sense and then it comes down to something as simple as greed or avarice or, you know, selfishness.”
Dominick Dunne on Power, Privilege, and Justice could summarize it in one paragraph. But as he once said, he doesn’t do poor people.
They are poor people, what with Lori “five kids and no money” Vallow and Chad with his 25 books bringing in $3000 a year. Specifically, Lori has shown a distinct inability to sustain herself over the years; she is a classic case of rolling up debt and then blaming the creditors.
Chad’s house in Salem, Idaho was bought on the cheap and never upgraded to a house for teenagers. Gravediggers do not make any money. Mrs. Tammy Daybell appeared to hold the family together, financially and otherwise, having worked her way up to full-fledged, tenured librarian. Plus, her work on the covers and sales efforts were a big part of selling the flimsy little 170-page novels. The fact is he had virtually no income of his own and maintaining the inventory of books was a problem.
The D.A. said the way one body was buried was egregious. I always thought egregious was an adjective. That is my layer, and I will come back to it.
Earlier a D.A. in the Daybell murders elected to simply bow out. This one, who has been leading the prosecution and investigation for a half a year, waited for a nice Summer day. The house is a mile over the county line.
I do like listening to all sides. I’ll just say I don’t like listening to people like LeBron James all the time.
Who would have known? I certainly did not.
Pretty much anyone who has ever had any contact with a police department is standing up. Statistics take a back seat because it does not happen all the time; of course black people are unduly persecuted by white people. This goes deeper. It is finally coming out. Who do you think you are? What gives you the right?
You are a human being just like me and this is wrong.
These questions are not so hard to answer. They are hard to address, hence the protests.
How does a patrolman who went to a tiny, local, religious college become, and survive at, sheriff of a 583,000-person county?
ANSWER: By doing the same old thing and blaming everyone else. That is how to survive at it; the rise comes from supporting and condoning corruption and Shrader learned from Ted Mink.
Mr. Shrader, did you ever think about what you would do after public service?
It is going to be a good story, this one, because it involves dozens of examples, thousands of photographs, and absolutely clear efforts to obstruct it. It is set against a backdrop of defunded police departments. At the very least they are losing a lot of their protections.
Now is a good time.
There are many, but this is one of my favorite videos. I like to look at people’s houses and this is a very good view.
I have had time to put my thoughts together. Here they are.
ONE. It has a lot to do with Mormons and the LDS church. The Grand Poobah, or whatever he calls himself these days, should take (partial) responsibility. Much of the family, and now the neighbors, have been making statements throughout and we got a good glimpse. It is enculturation (more commonly known as brainwashing).
Utah, Idaho, Arizona… I will not be moving to Rexburg.
TWO. As has been said by others, it is about fatal attraction and two losers. This hinges on the LDS church as well. Lori Vallow has gone through and/or killed four (now five) husbands and cannot sustain herself or children. As for Daybell, killing your wife and burying kids in your backyard is no way to go through life. To think… Six months ago they were celebrating in Hawaii. A gravedigger; crummy novels and podcasts is not an occupation either.
THREE. There is a strong element of narcissism here but even that is overshadowed by the church culture. It is like being addicted to Facebook. You are tracked either way.
FOUR. Last but not least (except for the next one), these are extremely serious crimes: murdering children and spouses; insurance and social security fraud; fleeing and lying to law enforcement. They murdered children and buried them in the backyard, and all the while smirking and lying about it.
FIVE. As noted, they are removed from the real world. They are also dumb.Here is another good video (AZFamily), but I don’t like using the images of the murdered kids (so it is no longer here). The pictures say a lot, especially if you go back knowing what we know now. And these are the same news correspondents who have been working on the case from the beginning.
I won’t watch or read anything “deseret” since I learned what the word means. Anyone who thinks Joseph Smith or Brigham Young were prophets, well, I just do not have much in common with them.
Most of the reporters are probably LDS too–Nate Eaton and others.